Ever since Abby has become mobile Ryan and I have had to sit Sarah down and talk to her about sharing numerous times. Sarah will be clear in the other room and can sense Abby picking up a toy (even if it isn't Sarah's). Sarah will run into the room {usually growling}snatch the toy from Abby and set it up where Abby can't reach. I'll admit this at times can be helpful when Abby is getting into something she shouldn't, or its nice not having to bend over to the floor when all of the toys are piled nicely on the couch, but for the most part it just frustrates me that Sarah suddenly needs the toy Abby is playing with and is being so selfish.
So we've had bedtime stories about Princess Sarah sharing, FHE lessons about how Jesus is happy when we share and talk after talk right after the act (usually accompanied with a short timeout on the stairs). But all to no avail, she still is stubborn and gets mad at Abby. I have even started explaining how Abby won't want to be friends with her (which at the moment Abby hasn't really had a problem with toys being snatched out of her hands left and right, but that won't last forever).
So how should I feel when I am doing the dinner dishes this morning (I'm a lazy house wife, and didn't do them last night... don't judge me) to find Sarah sharing with her sister?
Wait, didn't I just feed them breakfast? And HOW did she get those crackers?
Well, I guess I am supposed to be happy and proud of this sweet little moment.
Until I see them grinding the crackers into the rug {the nice clean rug I had just vacuumed}.
Not that you can tell with the toys strewn about the room {those were just picked up as well}.
{sigh} I am happy they are sharing. But maybe next time it can just be the toys...
...and not a crumbly mess on my clean floor.